i have decided that i may decide.

'May', a movie scene comes to my mind with this word. In that scene actor Akshay kumar sales a goat stating that this goat speaks. He asked goat which month comes after April and goat replies Mayyy.... Most people might react to the word 'May' as name of month.

'May' i think is the most important word when used in the sense of might, a possibility. This is the word which we tend to forget in most situations and is ironically suitable in most situations.

Generalization is an essential but harmful tool we have to live with. As we grow up we do tend to generalize from situations and try to predict. Everyone wants to be sure of whats happening and what is going to happen. So we generalize and predict. It is a necessity to make decisions.

But sometimes we generalize too early, with too little exposure and then tend to stick to that yardstick for a long time thats where generalization becomes harmful. Thats where we should remember all mighty important word, 'May'.

Whenever you have to take a decision, see if argument in your mind contains word 'May'. If not think again you are missing something. Things ought to change from your last decision. There is some change, some information you are overlooking or simply lacking.

incentive based stimulation vs enviornment based stimulation

Males are receptive to change and females are not. I think i should use words gents and ladies or men and women cause the point i want to make is not related to the biological factors.

Someone once said to me that men are more receptive to change than women.

May be it is. But Why?

I think our society is designed in such a way that women is the one who has to go thorough major changes in her lifestyle like marriage, motherhood etc. Men also go through these changes but not to that extend as women goes.

So, women who from childhood is aware of these coming changes look for stability, look for one man who can consistently love them, may be in the same way but can love them again and again.

Man were not ought to go through change of society, attachments and detachments, in case of marriage nor through any biological change in case of fatherhood. So, man look for change, they seek for new things, experiences.

The more i think more i am convinced of futility of this life. Then why can't we live just in moment and enjoy it as we want. Why?

Desire keeps us burning. This burning is good as food for propelling. Desire act as fuel. When this fuel is real good it burns you more and moves you ahead at a greater speed.

This increased or enhanced speed takes you to your finishing line sooner but but but but you will burn more, wear and tear will be more and you will be also losing the sight of surroundings while making your journey.

You will achieve more but you will feel less of other things. You will get lots of praise but you won't be able to gauge its value. You will have lesser memories of surroundings of your journey but more remnants of that burning sensation. You will connect more with yourself than others cause you have felt yourself burning more than seeing and observing others.

Confidence vs innocence

Confidence, should be or not. Generally, people say that confidence is must for success. I agree. It is easy to find parents encouraging their children that be confident, friends putting hand on shoulder that be confident.

OK. Be confident is fine. But then question is why should i be confident?

Just cause my friends say so. NO

I haven't put in much effort but i think i am smarter than others. NO

I prepared. YES

I believe i can cause i understand what to be done and how to be done. YES

So line is not between confidence or over confidence. It depends on source of confidence.

Instead of confidence innocence i think is better way to approach anything.