i have decided that i may decide.

'May', a movie scene comes to my mind with this word. In that scene actor Akshay kumar sales a goat stating that this goat speaks. He asked goat which month comes after April and goat replies Mayyy.... Most people might react to the word 'May' as name of month.

'May' i think is the most important word when used in the sense of might, a possibility. This is the word which we tend to forget in most situations and is ironically suitable in most situations.

Generalization is an essential but harmful tool we have to live with. As we grow up we do tend to generalize from situations and try to predict. Everyone wants to be sure of whats happening and what is going to happen. So we generalize and predict. It is a necessity to make decisions.

But sometimes we generalize too early, with too little exposure and then tend to stick to that yardstick for a long time thats where generalization becomes harmful. Thats where we should remember all mighty important word, 'May'.

Whenever you have to take a decision, see if argument in your mind contains word 'May'. If not think again you are missing something. Things ought to change from your last decision. There is some change, some information you are overlooking or simply lacking.

incentive based stimulation vs enviornment based stimulation

Males are receptive to change and females are not. I think i should use words gents and ladies or men and women cause the point i want to make is not related to the biological factors.

Someone once said to me that men are more receptive to change than women.

May be it is. But Why?

I think our society is designed in such a way that women is the one who has to go thorough major changes in her lifestyle like marriage, motherhood etc. Men also go through these changes but not to that extend as women goes.

So, women who from childhood is aware of these coming changes look for stability, look for one man who can consistently love them, may be in the same way but can love them again and again.

Man were not ought to go through change of society, attachments and detachments, in case of marriage nor through any biological change in case of fatherhood. So, man look for change, they seek for new things, experiences.