One more way to do this is to train him. You have to stay behind her, and goad her to top, push her to top. It will teach him and imbibe ability in her. Though still she may fail next time, if she will lack courage to take on opportunity by herself. This method will show best result if you could hide your push. If she didn't know that you have supported her like when you learn cycling you think someone is holding cycle from back but when you see after some distance you find you are on your own.
Point is to give him enough resources to build an ability to grab opportunities rather than giving opportunities on platter and then learning while doing it. Later scenario is also good but the catch is that those opportunities are given on expense of some deserving candidates.
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